a lot of people here care very deeply about a lot of different things
this is why people get into arguments with each other here and get upset, but it is also a big part of what makes you all lovely people
rly all we can do is, though we care about things, try and understand that whe someone says a thing you may not like, it is not intended to hurt you. that is one of the things about the heap which i like, which is that nobody here wants to hurt anyone else. arguments here arise from carelessness or misunderstanding, but not malice. that does not mean you should notpoint out that they have said something that might have hurt you. but it does mean that, though it is hard, i know it is hard, we should try not to blow up about things, or take things personally
i had a lot of problems with anger, with taking things badly, for a lot of my life. it really made my life miserable for the longest time. it was very difficult to overcome it. but it was worth it more than anything else i did. please try and before you post when you are feeling upset, take some deep breaths, walk away from the computer, make a cup of tea or get yourself a glass of water, take some time alone, and come back when you are feeling clearer. it is hard to think clearly enough to do this but if you remind yourself enough day to day then it will sink in. and when you start doing it, i promise you will feel better.
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it's frustrating though
and i meant what i said when i said this is really the only site i feel comfortable being myself on
tumblr isn't it, TVT isn't it, SA sure as heck isn't it
i'm glad you're feeling better, Section.
this is why people get into arguments with each other here and get upset, but it is also a big part of what makes you all lovely people
rly all we can do is, though we care about things, try and understand that whe someone says a thing you may not like, it is not intended to hurt you. that is one of the things about the heap which i like, which is that nobody here wants to hurt anyone else. arguments here arise from carelessness or misunderstanding, but not malice. that does not mean you should notpoint out that they have said something that might have hurt you. but it does mean that, though it is hard, i know it is hard, we should try not to blow up about things, or take things personally
i had a lot of problems with anger, with taking things badly, for a lot of my life. it really made my life miserable for the longest time. it was very difficult to overcome it. but it was worth it more than anything else i did. please try and before you post when you are feeling upset, take some deep breaths, walk away from the computer, make a cup of tea or get yourself a glass of water, take some time alone, and come back when you are feeling clearer. it is hard to think clearly enough to do this but if you remind yourself enough day to day then it will sink in. and when you start doing it, i promise you will feel better.
but if i can't have a place i can be myself and to talk to friends without explosive dramz, then i must tolerate the dramz
Will I come back? I don't know.
Goodbye all. It's been fun.
Feel free to come back anytime.
Assassin poems, Poems that shoot
guns. Poems that wrestle cops into alleys
and take their weapons leaving them dead
But if you want to leave or need some time away then i wish you the best.
Hope to see you again, if/when you feel like returning. But whatever you decide, good luck.
my pizza wanting is more tragic than yours because my housemate has a pizza but it is his pizza, and so i should not eat the pizza.