I made this thread because I was enjoying the discussion that was taking place in the main thread.
Moved here so people can talk without the wackiness of the main thread interfering.
People seemed civil enough to me, so...keep on keeping on, follow the rules, etc...
" IIRC Justice was there for that one. The dumb thing was that OTC actually leans pretty liberal - or did at the time, not sure what it's like now - and a lot of us might well have been sympathetic if we'd had the issue explained to us instead of being immediately denounced for our ignorance. I think this is fairly typical of negative experiences with so-called "social justice" types."
I started the thread.
A troper ( who did little more than lurk) found the thread weeks after it had died. The general consensus was Penny Arcade hadn't really done anything out of the ordinary with the first comic. I think we determined that the second comic, while potentially funny, probably did make it worse, and that the "Dick Wolves" merch was probably poking the bear a bit and was in bad taste.
OTC moved on and then someone resurrected the thread and basically implied (or, if memory serves, out-right stated after a few posts) we where a bunch of rape-apologists.
Eventully, the dude got his wife to make an account just so she could argue with people on OTC.
Now, if they hand't lumped everyone in the thread into the "rape apologists" camp and just provided the alternative viewpoint, they probably would have been fine. 'Course, they did none of that and provided a microcosm of what the Dick Wolves situation was. Namely, party A reacted strongly to a tasteless joke, causing party B to react strongly to their reaction, causing party A to react even STRONGER, causing... you get the picture...a shit-storm of dickery commences
Now, the wife had apparently been a victim of rape...not that really gives her license to label people "rape apologists", and the husband apparently believed this gave him the right to become a "Champion of Rape victims" (note: I'm NOT using hyperbole here).
Honestly, I doubt his situation is nearly as unique as he thinks it is. Anyhow...
They both left in huff saying something to the extent that they where sad that TV Tropes "wasn't the community they thought it was." Which was just as well, they where also pissing off mods, so they probably weren't long for the community.
The moral of the story is "Try to provide your alternative viewpoint BEFORE you start passing out labels to strangers like you're giving out free samples at the supermarket."
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But I can understand where the person is coming from, rape isn't really something you should joke about.
i get so angry sometimes i just punch plankton --Klinotaxis
i get so angry sometimes i just punch plankton --Klinotaxis
to employing -- and am getting weary of -- is informing people that "or
you are a bigot/rape apologist/bad
person/whatever-cute-new-term-used-for-people-who-dare-disagree-with-me"
is not a valid metric for anything.
This is where they can say that you're being oppressively logocentric, because formal logic is a social construct that only white males had access to. Women and POCs have other ways of knowing that are being discriminated against.
i get so angry sometimes i just punch plankton --Klinotaxis
Because at that point you have no common ground to argue on.
^ I've seen it happen. Not saying it's common.
But, like FM said, it leaves you with basically no common ground to argue on. So may as well table flip.
i get so angry sometimes i just punch plankton --Klinotaxis
Agreed, but I will go on record that:
Where have you been??
I don't mean social justice in general, I mostly mean this new wave of activists, who are focused on transgender issues and the idea of instutionalized racism/sexism.
But cis-gendered has a specific meaning of "person whose actual gender is their birth gender."
So I don't know if Gryphon's post about "Logocentrism" (a term that, in any case, has absolutely no place being thrown around outside the context of deconstructive critical readings) or Corporal Forsythe's characterization of "privilege" as "inherent racism" that makes you "basically a card-carrying member of the Klan" are descriptions of actual arguments that you guys have seen, and it doesn't strike me as particularly far-fetched that somebody might have been daft enough to say those things - but on the face and without that presumed context, they just look to me like extremely ugly strawman arguments attempting to wreck the credibility of an entirely valid and worthy cause.
I'm not saying that's what they are, and if you guys say that those are exact arguments you have seen I don't really doubt you, but if so then this is kind of scary to me, because it suggests that terms like "privilege" are being co-opted by people who either don't know or don't care what they actually mean and misused, essentially maliciously, to the detriment of any possibility of having a reasoned discussion of these issues.
I'll probably come back to this when I'm slightly more awake, but I said I'd respond to Forsythe's post in the heap and here seems to be the place to do it, so. Thank you for the clarification. And yeah, this is not at all what the term "safe-spaces" brings to mind, and I suspect that I may, again, be missing some important context here. It's for that reason that I'm reluctant to say for definite that such "spaces" are racist or harmful when I may well be overlooking some particular factor which necessitates their creation; I would have to hear the arguments in favour and decide for myself.
Going purely by what you wrote here, though, I will admit that these do at least sound questionable to me. I don't think a direct comparison to Jim Crow laws is fair, because everybody chooses who they prefer to socialize with, but I can't see any reason that isn't in itself racist for why a person would have any kind of racial preferences whatsoever. If a person had, say, had negative experiences with white people, then isolating themselves in a white-free environment is essentially blaming "whites" rather than the guilty individuals who happened to be white and ought to be apprehended for their behaviour. If racists are not being apprehended then that does indeed point to a serious problem with society and with relevant law enforcement that won't be fixed by forcing the victimized parties underground.
But... I'm aware that I'm saying this from both a position of privilege and a position of ignorance, so if somebody was willing to explain to me why, in their opinion, such spaces were necessary, and didn't feel the need to call me a fascist or similar for not already being familiar with the arguments in favour, I would at least be willing to listen.
Obviously, this is not a post-racial society (if it was, odds are we wouldn't even be discussing this), much as we might want it to be. Collectively, this society has come a long way towards eliminating racism, but we have a very long way to go yet.
Maybe I'm just looking in the wrong places.
(*Shrug*)
(*I'll have more to say once I read the entirety of your post*)
I don't think I've ever seen or heard of "Safe Spaces" as defined there in Forsythe's post before.
I have seen the term applied in an online context, but I don't think I've ever encountered it in the sense that certain races (or sexualities or genders) are automatically unwelcome. I've seen the request that members of privileged groups avoid dictating how members of less privileged groups should behave in such spaces, which seems entirely reasonable to me, but that's it.
He got all confused as to why we all thought he was nuts, and Maddy ended up banning the dude...
Honestly, that was my only experience with a crazy.
And yeah, I guess she did her safe zone thing differently.
i get so angry sometimes i just punch plankton --Klinotaxis
i get so angry sometimes i just punch plankton --Klinotaxis
But saying it's impossible seems far-fetched.
i get so angry sometimes i just punch plankton --Klinotaxis
I guess what kind of concerns me about descriptions of particular types of people, e.g. "social justice bloggers," is that they very often do sound like strawman versions or misunderstandings of familiar beliefs and demographics. And often when people do take offence at one another, from an outside perspective, it definitely comes across like they're approaching the topic from entirely different frames of reference and allowing their assumptions about the "type" of person who thinks otherwise to colour their interpretations of the arguments being made. I'm similarly wary of the pejorative use of any term of identification, for much the same reasons.
I've seen that in some reblogs. It kind of leads to that crap where you aren't allowed to be offended at things anymore and it's dumb.
Also, I have an awesome social justice blogger on my dashboard. I think her blog is mehreenkasana (sp) and she does bring insight on the lives of women in the Middle East and how they aren't helpless.
i get so angry sometimes i just punch plankton --Klinotaxis